Some women have difficulty having an orgasm without being purged, so your sugar daddy may not be able give you the sexual pleasure you desire. Your gay sugar daddy might need to try different sexual positions if he is having trouble determining whether he is more attracted to women or men. They would also prefer to spend the money on someone else than have their allowance cut by his girlfriend or wife. Most of these men would rather have casual sex than engage in a committed relationship with another man, so they would be happy to learn more about vanilla relationships. His orientation would be more about the people he meets within his gay community than his sexual orientation. If he thinks that being gay is a way to make him feel manly, then he might be open to learning more about what it means to be gay. How would that change things? Well, it depends on how open-minded your daddy is Now, aside from being an older gay lover and a gay daddy, it could also be someone who is out of the closet. A gay daddy is anyone who is at least middle-aged, has a straight family and is willing to provide financial support and emotional security for his gay lover.